Holiday celebrations are especially stressful for women. This 2006 study found that "Holiday stress has a particular impact on women, who take charge of many of the holiday celebrations."
The commercialism of the season, can also increase stress for middle to low-income families who worry if they will be able to get everything done and how they will afford it. Both men and women feel a duty to provide the best holiday they can for their families.
During this chaos, may you look for and find Christ. Our culture around holiday stress and performance will only change if we change it.
As we find Christ this season, let's feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, welcome the stranger, clothe the naked, take care of the sick and visit those in prison. (Mt. 25) That's where Christ will be.