A theme in our conversation stuck in my mind: the basic assumption being that if you think positively, visualize what you are after and focus your mind, whatever you want most in life will be made manifest.
Popular trends in American psychology support this theory, with books like The Secret being one of the best-known examples. I can see how these concepts are very empowering - to go from thinking you are at the mercy of other people and larger systems to harnessing a secret deep well of good things within yourself. Who wouldn't agree with letting go of all that holds you back and moving unencumbered toward your goals?
Here's why I don't agree.
The stories of my ancestors in faith show me that we all face adversity. God actually led people through the desert for a long time. Did God leave them? No. In the Psalms, people cry out to God in pain and anguish. Was it wrong to be honest about their suffering? No. Turning to your God for comfort during those times is a natural and good response.
My most significant objection with positive thinking is the subtext that if you do think negatively, it is your fault. If you do lose your job, it's because you didn't express intention well enough or think positively enough. There was one ounce of doubt in you and that's the reason you didn't get the job.
God has shown faithful people from ancient times that sometimes you're just in the desert. God may even call you to the desert for reasons you never quite figure out. And yes, God may bring you out of the desert into the Promised Land.
God doesn't stop being our God in those hard times. And when they get too hard to bear, sometimes we just need a savior.